Why I would want to hide the fact that I was a tourist in a city that welcomes over 40 million tourists a year is beyond me. For some warped reason I felt the only one true way to fully enjoy Paris was to blend in with the Parisians – to look like them, walk like them, eat like them, sip my warm hot chocolate from Les Deux Magots like them. Maybe it was because I had read several exaggerated perspectives that claimed Parisians viewed tourists as some type of primitive lower life form. Perhaps I felt that I would somehow impress the locals with my knowledge of Paris and my smooth adaptive prowess. Regardless of my misguided reasoning, I had studied hard on how to blend in. It’s kind of funny that during our stay I was probably the most obvious tourist in all of Paris.
There are so many moments that come to my mind – moments where any normal tourist would just do what tourists do. Tourists would ask questions, pull out a map, or take their time. Not me. To give you an example of what I’m talking about, I look no further than the Paris Metro. Just under the surface of the city of Paris is an incredible underground world. It’s the city’s cardiovascular system with people racing like blood through the system’s complex layers of train tracks and hallways. Parisians walk through the Metro about as fast as I run but they move with a fluid rhythm. Now imagine me, with my skewed view of being a tourist, tackling it for the first time! I did everything I could avoid the dreaded tourist tag. I refused to look at the huge metro wall maps except as a last resort. And I almost had a stroke when I realized a line of locals had gathered behind me as I tried to operate the ticket kiosk. Silly, I know.
Then there was the time when my wife and I stood on a street corner in Saint-Germain-des-Prés. Instead of just pulling out the map and getting my bearings, we slipped over against the wall with our backs to the steady stream of people. I eased out the map as my body shielded it from the pedestrians. I laugh now because we probably looked like a shady pair consummating a drug deal. Again, a result of my overactive idea that fitting it would carry more weight with the Parisians. They knew who I was – what I was.
Parisians recognize tourists. Tourism is an enormous part of Paris. People travel all over the world to see the beautiful gardens, spectacular architecture, classic art, and mighty monuments. People come to walk the streets, eat French food, and experience the culture. They come to climb Eiffel’s tower, sit in Notre Dame, and climb the steps in Montmartre. 40 million tourists visit Paris each year. Why not just be one of them? I think the Parisians will be just fine with that.
As always, love your commentary…we have six weeks til we arrive and will take your words to heart
OH I’M JEALOUS! Have a wonderful time…well, obviously you will. Afterall, it’s Paris, right? 🙂
Thanks…we will and will post report – although not as eloquent as yours 🙂
Oh I’m not that eloquent. Besides, it’s all about the heart behind it. I love reading people who are sharing their experiences from their heart. You can feel the love and affection they have for the city. It takes me back there. Can’t wait to read it. Safe travels!
Next spring we are going to Ireland, England and France. We are planning about 12 days in Paris. As I look through my Paris travel book, it is overwhelming with WONDERFUL experiences. I don’t want to offend anyone…or stand out as a ‘sucker’ …I was told do not wear jeans or white tennis shoes…. please advise..(we are old and want to do what is right) Thanks
I think jeans are perfectly fine. I saw many people both local and tourists who had jeans on. I don’t think it’s a big deal at all. Now to be honest I didn’t see many white tennis shoes. But it was a cool early June when we went and no one was wearing shorts.
Parisians are a stylish bunch but not to the point of not wearing jeans. You’ll see a lot of them on your visit. It’s such a wonderful city and I can’t wait to go back. In still writing about my first visit and its memories still flood my mind.
Thanks for the comments! 🙂
I am so excited. I just don’t want to look the victim, or be rude. In Sidney Au, while eating a late night supper of McDonalds(the only thing open after our plane arrived) a man in a trench coat swooped down on me so quickly I could not react. He stuffed my burger in his mouth and grabbed all the food that he could as he ran out the door. It was so fast no one had time to react! The management and staff were so upset….. I wasn’t as upset as they were…… I just wish I had the op to feed that man. He must have been really hungry to reach over someone while they were eating and steal their meal. If I/he had only known, I would have feed him all the food he could possibly hold. My point? I don’t want to stand out in a crown and look vulnerable…(my stark white hair is a dead giveway I am afraid)
I understand. Paris is a safe city but pickpockets flourish there. I also tried to blend in. I didn’t want to look like a target.